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hi! i’m alex; i’m a wasian tme nb lesbian that likes tasty snacks and nice songs. i don’t really post here but i like to reblog things for sure. i like animation, video games, and being outspoken and passionate about being asian. my special interests are pokemon (particularly the anime and mystery dungeon series) and madoka magica.

i’m more active on twitter - but again, i like to reblog things on here too :]

i love making/writing ocs and i am also a hobbyist digital artist. you can find some of my art and ocs on my toyhouse account!

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renthebarbarian:

asonr:

Autistic spaces are getting so much more hostile towards people with low empathy, and it sucks

There was a subreddit I really liked, people were chill, and then there was a sudden influx of people making posts like ‘Autistic people have empathy! Saying we don’t makes us seem like monsters! Thats not a symptom!’ And people making posts explaining that no, actually, some of us do have low empathy got attacked and told they were wrong or ableist? And it sucks, because its just so hard to find a place to exist where you can be seen as not evil? I don’t know, it just hurts a lot to be told that

"Don't make me tap the sign" meme. The sign says "empathy is not a prerequisite for being a kind or good human being; compassion is an act we mindfully perform, not a feeling"ALT

koko2unite:

ohevoyev:

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sorry. what the fuck was that?

he gaggy on my rogers until I whoopsy-doo

corn unalive sewer slide I cant TAKE IT ANYMORE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

montymollusk:

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please look at this picture junji ito drew of his moms crusty white dog

organicmatter:

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had an autism moment at the computer part store today

cursedwoods:

cursedwoods:

remember that you’re white before you’re anything else and this impacts every single way you interact with the world compared to poc

whiteness is a shield for you as a person and its part of your privilege, ignorance on said privilege is complacency and support to white supremacy. a poc saying you have privilege is not an insult but a fact and a lot of you seriously have to think critically for once and question as to why you feel insulted

romanken:

Daily affirmations. Blond men are the devil’s emissaries. Blond men will not enter the kingdom of heaven at their deaths nor will they sing with the rest of god’s creatures in his choir. Blond men are a scourge upon this earth and all who consider themselves righteous and holy are bound by honor to hunt them to extinction

autistickudari:

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day 04: memories

sailorportia:

sailorportia:

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What trans girls hear in conversion therapy lol

Literally nobody is running around demanding that feminine cis dudes transition into women. Literally no one. Nobody is pressuring cis men to live as trans women, but the reverse sure as fuck is true.

Imagine thinking that the second a trans woman throws on a skirt, everybody and their dog trips over themselves to tells her how much of a female girl woman lady she is. Imagine thinking that trans women are so accepted in society that in the rush to correctly gender us that they’re affirming the womanhood of anyone who could potentially be a transfem.

The majority of people can’t wait for the chance to call transfems men, so I highly fucking doubt literal actual cis men are struggling to be labelled as male lol

dovv:

me as a youtuber making thousands of dollars off of video essays paraphrasing the Wikipedia articles for horrific travesties throughout European and Asian history: uhh okay I’m not even gonna TRY to pronounce that one 😂

what is transandrophobia?

molsno:

transandrophobia is a “theory” that trans men and transmascs are oppressed not just for being trans, but for being masculine as well. in this way, it aims to mirror transmisogyny. people who subscribe to it will tell you that transandrophobia as a term needs to exist so that transmascs can more easily describe the unique ways that they’re oppressed, but this justification is faulty because it demonstrates a lack of understanding for why transmisogyny theory exists.

following their own logic, transmisogyny must be a word to describe the unique ways that transfems are oppressed, but that’s not actually what it means. transmisogyny is the intersection of transphobia and misogyny. but it isn’t simply a combination of these two forms of oppression - it’s a unique form of oppression which is greater than the sum of its parts. it was first coined by julia serano in her 2007 book, whipping girl, and she has written extensively about it. what’s key about transmisogyny (and this is true for other intersections of oppression as well) is that someone who’s affected by it also experiences its individual components in different situations. that is to say, transfems experience transphobia, misogyny, and transmisogyny separately at different times.

so, if transandrophobia is to be the mirror of transmisogyny, then that would imply that it’s also the intersection of two forms of oppression: transphobia and… androphobia? whatever the second one is called, it would have to be predicated on a societal hatred of masculinity. the problem is that there’s no such thing. men are not oppressed for being men. that’s not to say that men can’t be oppressed - they clearly can be, due to any number of factors. men of color are oppressed by racism, gay men are oppressed by homophobia, disabled men are oppressed by ableism, and so on. however, they’re not oppressed for being men or masculine specifically. if they were, there would very likely be a large scale movement to raise awareness about this - oh wait, it’s called misandry, and it’s infamous for being based on faulty logic that misattributes the causes of men’s suffering such that they can blame it on women. surprise! transandrophobia is also sometimes called transmisandry - it was renamed so that people wouldn’t automatically dismiss it.

and yet, the kind of faulty logic that misandry theory is built upon is still central to transandrophobia. proponents of transandrophobia theory will frequently talk about situations in which transandrophobia is occurring. the problem is that each example, without fail, is already explained by some other form of oppression - most often transphobia. for example, they will say that trans men being denied access to necessary health care such as pap smears is an example of transandrophobia. the problem is, that’s just transphobia, because certain health care procedures being restricted to people of certain genders harms all trans people. I’ve seen some truly ridiculous examples, too - by far the most egregious was that trans women are actually oppressed by transandrophobia because society views us as gnc men. this blatantly transmisogynistic statement fails to even conform to the theory’s internal logic - if transandrophobia is predicated on a societal hatred towards masculinity, then why would anyone who society perceives as male be punished for being feminine?

transandrophobia, like misandry before it, is a reactionary movement spearheaded by trans men who can’t tolerate not being the center of attention in the public discourse surrounding trans people. their theory demonstrates a widespread failure (or refusal) to grasp even the most basic tenets of intersectionality - most notably, that people of the same oppressed social group can oppress one another based on other factors. “transandrophobia truthers” as they’re sometimes called refuse to acknowledge that they can and do oppress trans women, and that they benefit from transmisogyny.

transandrophobia theory has no reason to exist. there’s already a word to describe the oppression people face for being transmasc: transphobia.

scrimblospectrumdisorder:

I hate when people criticize magical girl anime for having long transformation scenes. “so the enemies just wait for them?” have you ever considered that something can be beautiful without needing to serve a purpose or make sense in a literal scenario 💔